“ But the tax collector, standing some distance away, was even unwilling to lift up his eyes to heaven, but was beating his breast, saying, ‘God, be merciful to me, the sinner!’” (Luke 18:13)
Lee Irons quotes on his blog (below) Jeff Iorg’s book that opens “In my 20s, I was determined to change the world. In my 30s, I tried to reform the church. In my early 40s, I discovered I was the problem.” So common is our propensity to see the problem as something external— something out there. If we could get those others to act right or at least believe right, then we will be on our way to the kingdom of God. Jesus’ lesson on humility starts with me. This is not to say that there should never be a movement of external social reform. However, this reform should proceed only after much more effort has been expended to clean up my side of the street.
http://upper-register.typepad.com/blog/2012/05/building-character-for-godly-leadership.html